Family law attorneys often do run the meter on clients while crying on their couch about a cheating spouse.  However, they do not (and usually are not allowed to) charge contingency fees.  Most family law attorneys have no problem counseling and listening to the problems of others, as they are often naturally empathetic and caring people who enjoy helping others. 

It is not advisable to try to take on such difficult and emotionally wrenching legal matters without hiring a local family law attorney.  Each state’s laws are different.  Prenuptial agreements are not always necessary, child support collection methods can get creative, and settlement negotiations in a divorce can get nasty.  So, check around and get a feel for who are the experienced attorneys and which ones may best fit your situation.

Many times, family law attorneys will also serve as a mediator, as well as an attorney.  Although they cannot serve in both capacities in the same case, and their fees are quite comparable to that of an attorney, mediation has its benefits.  It is generally quicker, cheaper (in the long run), and the decisions are private (as opposed to a court judgment).  Mediation should not be confused with arbitration, which is another form of ADR (Alternative Dispute Resolution).